Even though my marriage was over, I was still clinging to my armour. Finally, tired of going to bed at night physically exhausted and emotionally drained, I attended an event hosted by a top leadership expert, Dov Baron. Standing on stage, he asked a powerful question that would haunt me for months to come. He asked,”Who are you hurting by playing small?” That night, I went to bed crying into my pillow, his question echoing in my head. I knew the answer was, The people I love, The people I love, especially my kids. I also secretly knew there were many more.