We all want more money.
Keeping that in mind, have you ever asked yourself, “Why am I not experiencing the kind of money I know I deserve?”
For many of us, it can be emotionally troubling to notice other people who seem less smart than us to have more of the green stuff than we do. “What is it about someone that makes them a money magnet?”
I don’t know about you, but those were the kind of questions that went circling the drain in my head when I caught myself comparing my financial abundance to others.
It has taken me years of being mentored to finally start getting it at a much deeper level. As Dov Baron wonderfully explains it in his book, Don’t Read This Unless You Want More Money, “In life you don’t get what you deserve; you get what you think you deserve.”
Therefore, what is it about us that makes us think that we might not deserve superb financial abundance?
The answer is found in the Emotional Intelligence of money.
Allow me to explain.
The Emotional Intelligence of money is:
understanding what you feel about money and why you feel that way;
it’s sensing the difference between your wants and your needs, really understanding what money means to you emotionally;
a way to welcome more money and enjoy it.
We all like to think that we make financial decisions rationally. Wrong! It is our feelings that dictate the $$$ decisions we make (and the kind of financial abundance we get to experience).
To make this clearer for you, let’s do an exercise:
Do you rationally welcome $1,000,000 in your bank account right now? Yes? Awesome!
Now, let’s pretend that you’re walking in the middle of the desert and there’s no one else around. Suddenly, you find a suitcase that contains $1,000,000 in unmarked bills. What is the #1 feeling that came up? Be honest with yourself.
To rationally prove ourselves right, our #1 feeling then references our beliefs and memories (our why we feel that way). What is your belief/memory around that kind of $$$?
I did this exercise with a coaching client of mine. Smiling, they told me they rationally welcomed $1,000,000 or more! But when I asked them what was the #1 feeling that arose from finding that money in the desert, they answered, “Panic!”, and their referenced belief was, “Mafia.” For that client to know what it feels like to welcome $1,000,000 in their bank account, they must turn that feeling of panic into a feeling of heartfelt gratitude, for example. Which means they must reference more empowering money beliefs in order to feelingly welcome more $$$ to them.
“Why am I not experiencing the kind of money I know I deserve?”
You now know the answer to that question. What is the #1 feeling you mostly associate with $$$ and your bank account?
If you are experiencing a negative feeling with $$$, then you are signalling the universe NOT to send you more money because it is apparently stressing you out.
“What is it about someone that makes them a money magnet?”
You now also know the answer to that question. Why do you feel that way about $$$?
If you got excited at finding $1,000,000 in the desert, then you just told the Universe to dump truckloads of money in your backyard!
The Emotional Intelligence of money permeates every area of our lives. If someone who seems less smart than us is experiencing more $$$ and financial wealth than us, then it’s very likely they welcome money with more open arms.
If you would like to book a call where we will chat about how I can assist you attract more financial wealth into your life, here’s the link; https://walkinginside.com/contact-us
Your financial EQ coach,